Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to GrowSimon and Schuster, 2010/05/08 - 450 ページ The classic New York Times bestseller about the many forms of loss we experience throughout our lives, and the necessity of letting go. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life-affirming and life-changing. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting a universal human experience. “One of the most sensitive and comprehensive books about the human condition I have read in a long time.” —Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People “Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole.” —The New York Times Book Review |
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... Connection Chapter 3 Standing Alone Chapter 4 The Private " | " Chapter 5 Lessons in Love 21 34 43 51 66 PART II THE ... CONNECTIONS PART III Chapter II Dreams and Realities Chapter 12 Convenience Friends and Historical Friends and ...
... Connection Chapter 3 Standing Alone Chapter 4 The Private " | " Chapter 5 Lessons in Love 21 34 43 51 66 PART II THE ... CONNECTIONS PART III Chapter II Dreams and Realities Chapter 12 Convenience Friends and Historical Friends and ...
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... connection ; that our status on this planet is implacably impermanent ; and that we are utterly powerless to offer ourselves or those we love protection - protection from danger and pain , from the in- roads of time , from the coming of ...
... connection ; that our status on this planet is implacably impermanent ; and that we are utterly powerless to offer ourselves or those we love protection - protection from danger and pain , from the in- roads of time , from the coming of ...
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... connections . And the losses — the multiple losses — of the second half of life , of our final losing , leaving , letting go . Examining these losses does not make for merry remedies like Winning Through Losing or The Joy of Loss . Our ...
... connections . And the losses — the multiple losses — of the second half of life , of our final losing , leaving , letting go . Examining these losses does not make for merry remedies like Winning Through Losing or The Joy of Loss . Our ...
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... connection : The mother - child bond which teaches us that we are lovable . The mother - child bond which teaches us how to love . We cannot be whole human beings — indeed , we may find it hard to be human- without the sustenance of ...
... connection : The mother - child bond which teaches us that we are lovable . The mother - child bond which teaches us how to love . We cannot be whole human beings — indeed , we may find it hard to be human- without the sustenance of ...
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... connection with his mother . The cost of separation may also be high when working mothers cannot find or pay for adequate child care - and more than half of those with children under the age of six now go to work ! The women's movement ...
... connection with his mother . The cost of separation may also be high when working mothers cannot find or pay for adequate child care - and more than half of those with children under the age of six now go to work ! The women's movement ...
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The Private | 51 |
Lessons in Love | 66 |
THE FORBIDDEN AND THE IMPOSSIBLE | 81 |
Passionate Triangles | 100 |
Anatomy and Destiny | 115 |
Good as Guilt | 130 |
Saving the Children | 205 |
Family Feelings | 223 |
Love and Mourning | 237 |
Shifting Images | 265 |
Grow Old I Grow Old | 284 |
The ABC of Dying | 305 |
Reconnections | 325 |
BIBLIOGRAPHY | 413 |
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