Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to GrowSimon and Schuster, 2010/05/08 - 450 ページ The classic New York Times bestseller about the many forms of loss we experience throughout our lives, and the necessity of letting go. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life-affirming and life-changing. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting a universal human experience. “One of the most sensitive and comprehensive books about the human condition I have read in a long time.” —Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People “Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole.” —The New York Times Book Review |
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... Dreams and Realities Chapter 12 Convenience Friends and Historical Friends and Crossroads and Cross - Generational Friends and Friends Who Come When You Call 161 at Two in the Morning Chapter 13 Love and Hate in the Married State ...
... Dreams and Realities Chapter 12 Convenience Friends and Historical Friends and Crossroads and Cross - Generational Friends and Friends Who Come When You Call 161 at Two in the Morning Chapter 13 Love and Hate in the Married State ...
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... dreams we dream , as well as in our intimate relationships , all that we never will have and never will be . Passionate investment leaves us vulnerable to loss . And sometimes , no matter how clever we are , we must lose . An eight ...
... dreams we dream , as well as in our intimate relationships , all that we never will have and never will be . Passionate investment leaves us vulnerable to loss . And sometimes , no matter how clever we are , we must lose . An eight ...
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... dreams of ideal relationships for the human realities of imperfect connections . And the losses — the multiple losses — of the second half of life , of our final losing , leaving , letting go . Examining these losses does not make for ...
... dreams of ideal relationships for the human realities of imperfect connections . And the losses — the multiple losses — of the second half of life , of our final losing , leaving , letting go . Examining these losses does not make for ...
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... dream . And while we fiercely protect the boundaries of self that clearly demark the you from the me , we also yearn to recapture the lost paradise of that ultimate connection . Our pursuit of this connection - of the restoration of ...
... dream . And while we fiercely protect the boundaries of self that clearly demark the you from the me , we also yearn to recapture the lost paradise of that ultimate connection . Our pursuit of this connection - of the restoration of ...
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The Private | 51 |
Lessons in Love | 66 |
THE FORBIDDEN AND THE IMPOSSIBLE | 81 |
Passionate Triangles | 100 |
Anatomy and Destiny | 115 |
Good as Guilt | 130 |
Saving the Children | 205 |
Family Feelings | 223 |
Love and Mourning | 237 |
Shifting Images | 265 |
Grow Old I Grow Old | 284 |
The ABC of Dying | 305 |
Reconnections | 325 |
BIBLIOGRAPHY | 413 |
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