Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to GrowSimon and Schuster, 2010/05/08 - 450 ページ The classic New York Times bestseller about the many forms of loss we experience throughout our lives, and the necessity of letting go. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life-affirming and life-changing. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting a universal human experience. “One of the most sensitive and comprehensive books about the human condition I have read in a long time.” —Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People “Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole.” —The New York Times Book Review |
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... Up in Order to Grow Judith Viorst. It is the image in the mind that binds us to our lost treasures , but it is the loss that shapes the image . -Colette Introduction After almost two decades of writing essentially about the.
... Up in Order to Grow Judith Viorst. It is the image in the mind that binds us to our lost treasures , but it is the loss that shapes the image . -Colette Introduction After almost two decades of writing essentially about the.
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... lost in thoughts of their own , and soon or late they disappear . The only mystery is that we expect it to be otherwise . -Marilynne Robinson We begin life with loss . We are cast from the womb without an apartment , a charge plate , a ...
... lost in thoughts of their own , and soon or late they disappear . The only mystery is that we expect it to be otherwise . -Marilynne Robinson We begin life with loss . We are cast from the womb without an apartment , a charge plate , a ...
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... lost , or how perilous it may be to dwell in her presence . It doesn't matter whether she hurts or hugs . Separation from mother is worse than being in her arms when the bombs are exploding . Separation from mother is sometimes worse ...
... lost , or how perilous it may be to dwell in her presence . It doesn't matter whether she hurts or hugs . Separation from mother is worse than being in her arms when the bombs are exploding . Separation from mother is sometimes worse ...
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... lost mother returns , her child will throw himself joyously into her arms . This isn't what happens . For surprisingly enough , many children - especially under age three - may greet their returning mother very coldly , treating her ...
... lost mother returns , her child will throw himself joyously into her arms . This isn't what happens . For surprisingly enough , many children - especially under age three - may greet their returning mother very coldly , treating her ...
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... lost . We acknowledge a time of harmony , wholeness , unbreachable safety , unconditional love , and a time when that wholeness was irretrievably rent . We acknowledge it in religion and myth and fairy tales and our con- scious and ...
... lost . We acknowledge a time of harmony , wholeness , unbreachable safety , unconditional love , and a time when that wholeness was irretrievably rent . We acknowledge it in religion and myth and fairy tales and our con- scious and ...
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The Private | 51 |
Lessons in Love | 66 |
THE FORBIDDEN AND THE IMPOSSIBLE | 81 |
Passionate Triangles | 100 |
Anatomy and Destiny | 115 |
Good as Guilt | 130 |
Saving the Children | 205 |
Family Feelings | 223 |
Love and Mourning | 237 |
Shifting Images | 265 |
Grow Old I Grow Old | 284 |
The ABC of Dying | 305 |
Reconnections | 325 |
BIBLIOGRAPHY | 413 |
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