Necessary Losses: The Loves, Illusions, Dependencies, and Impossible Expectations That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to GrowSimon and Schuster, 2010/05/08 - 450 ページ The classic New York Times bestseller about the many forms of loss we experience throughout our lives, and the necessity of letting go. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers’ protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life-affirming and life-changing. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting a universal human experience. “One of the most sensitive and comprehensive books about the human condition I have read in a long time.” —Harold S. Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People “Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole.” —The New York Times Book Review |
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... things- herself . Her loss , our gain . " -PHYLLIS THEROUX " Judith Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole . . . . she is at her best when applying her own experiences and sensibilities ...
... things- herself . Her loss , our gain . " -PHYLLIS THEROUX " Judith Viorst has synthesized a vast amount of research into a very readable and generous whole . . . . she is at her best when applying her own experiences and sensibilities ...
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... Things Happen to Good People " There is much of value in this book . . . We are not offered here the soothing syrup of the relentlessly upbeat treatise which promises instant success in our sexual and financial affairs if we follow a ...
... Things Happen to Good People " There is much of value in this book . . . We are not offered here the soothing syrup of the relentlessly upbeat treatise which promises instant success in our sexual and financial affairs if we follow a ...
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... Thing About Barney Alexander and the Terrible , Horrible , No Good , Very Bad Day My Mama Says There Aren't Any Zombies , Ghosts , Vampires , Creatures , Demons , Monsters , Fiends , Goblins , or Things Rosie and Michael Alexander , Who ...
... Thing About Barney Alexander and the Terrible , Horrible , No Good , Very Bad Day My Mama Says There Aren't Any Zombies , Ghosts , Vampires , Creatures , Demons , Monsters , Fiends , Goblins , or Things Rosie and Michael Alexander , Who ...
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... thing as a baby , " writes psychoanalyst - pediatrician D. W. Winni- cott , observing that babies in fact can't exist without mothers . Separation anxiety derives from the literal truth that without a caretaking presence we would die ...
... thing as a baby , " writes psychoanalyst - pediatrician D. W. Winni- cott , observing that babies in fact can't exist without mothers . Separation anxiety derives from the literal truth that without a caretaking presence we would die ...
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... things out , Art decided to enter psychoanalysis , in the course of which he began to examine some of the early experiences which continued to cast their shadow on his life . Making him a loner . Making him unable to trust . Making him ...
... things out , Art decided to enter psychoanalysis , in the course of which he began to examine some of the early experiences which continued to cast their shadow on his life . Making him a loner . Making him unable to trust . Making him ...
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34 | |
The Private | 51 |
Lessons in Love | 66 |
THE FORBIDDEN AND THE IMPOSSIBLE | 81 |
Passionate Triangles | 100 |
Anatomy and Destiny | 115 |
Good as Guilt | 130 |
Saving the Children | 205 |
Family Feelings | 223 |
Love and Mourning | 237 |
Shifting Images | 265 |
Grow Old I Grow Old | 284 |
The ABC of Dying | 305 |
Reconnections | 325 |
BIBLIOGRAPHY | 413 |
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